Know how to protect yourself from domestic violence

The Superbowl is a few weeks away. While most people can enjoy the game with family and friends, some cannot. Whether fueled by alcohol, gambling, or other factors, statistics sadly show that the domestic violence escalates around this time.

If you find yourself to be the victim of domestic violence at any time, take immediate measures to promote your safety and that of any minor children. Call the police if necessary. Domestic violence complaints can me made at your local police station at any time of day and at your local courthouse during normal business hours.

Whether you are the victim of domestic violence or the alleged abuser, The Durst Firm is here to help.

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What can we learn from the devastating LA wildfires?

It’s heartbreaking to be sitting here in NJ watching the devastation taking place in Los Angeles, CA. The catastrophe is causing unimaginable chaos for the affected families and individuals.

Scenarios such as this cause us to think about how we would respond, think about what’s truly important and what we may need to secure and safeguard in order to rebuild a life.

In the context of family law, protecting your family is the first and foremost concern. If you are separated from the other parent, stay in contact and provide updates when it’s safe to do so. See if the other parent can provide safe, temporary housing for the children. Work with one another on schooling, child support, and emotional support for the children during and after disaster strikes.

Safeguard your paperwork. We suggest to our clients that they keep hard copies of documents such as Judgements of Divorce, Restraining Orders, birth certificates, and the like in a secure location and also save them electronically. We also maintain digital copies for our clients. These documents may prove necessary to maintain protection from abuse, enroll children on school or obtain medical treatment for them. Keeping these records together in a secure location will make it all the more easier to locate them and take them with you should the need arise.

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Sandy Durst, Esq. to moderate CLE on QDRO’s for the Mercer County Bar Association

If you are a member of the Mercer County Bar Association, please take advantage of this free CLE program. If you are not yet a member, join today in order to take advantage of this opportunity.

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New Mercer County divorce filings continue to be transferred to other counties

Due to the ongoing shortage of judges and the enormous case load of divorce cases in Mercer County, attorneys were informed today that all new divorce filings will continue to be transferred to either Burlington, Middlesex or Atlantic county. The next review of this procedure is set for May 1, 2025.

Obviously, this can greatly impact your case. We have the experience and know-how to help mitigate this inconvenience. If you have questions about this development, The Durst Firm has the answers you need. Reach out before filing.

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Prenuptial Agreements: should one be part of your wedding planning?

With wedding season right around the corner, it is important to consider one aspect of wedding planning that many couples overlook or find distasteful: a prenuptial agreement. As couples are marrying later in life or embarking upon a second marriage, it is reasonable to expect that assets and debts have come into being. A prenuptial agreement can address how those premarital assets and liabilities will be addressed if the marriage breaks down.


Understanding Prenuptial Agreements

A prenuptial agreement, commonly referred to as a “prenup,” is a legal contract entered into by a couple before they marry. This document outlines how assets and debts will be handled in the event of a divorce, separation, or death. While discussing a prenup may not be the most romantic aspect of wedding planning, it’s a practical step that can provide clarity and protection for both parties.

What is a Prenup?

At its core, a prenup establishes the property and financial rights of each spouse in the unfortunate event that the marriage ends. Preparing a prenuptial agreement is analogous to preparing a will and related estate planning documents.

Who Needs a Prenup?

Contrary to popular belief, prenups aren’t just for the wealthy. Prenups can be helpful for small/family business owners and anyone looking to add a degree of clarity and certainty in the unfortunate event of a divorce. This includes individuals with significant debts, those who own a business, and those who want to safeguard inheritances or personal assets.

What Does a Prenup Cover?

A prenup can cover a variety of issues, including:

  • Asset Distribution: How property and assets will be divided.
  • Debt Allocation: How debts will be handled and who will be responsible for them.
  • Spousal Support: If alimony will be paid, and if so, the terms of those payments.
  • Business Protection: How a business owned by one spouse will be treated.

However, there are limitations. In New Jersey, a prenup cannot address issues of custody, parenting time, or child support.

How to Get a Prenup

Obtaining a prenup typically involves the following steps:

  1. Discussion: Both parties should openly discuss their financial situations and expectations.
  2. Legal Representation: Each party should have their own attorney to ensure their interests are represented.
  3. Drafting: The prenup should be drafted, outlining all agreed-upon terms.
  4. Review and Sign: Both parties should review the document carefully before signing.

Conclusion

While the thought of a prenup may bring discomfort, it’s a strategic move that can prevent future stress and conflict. By setting clear expectations and protections, a prenup can actually strengthen the foundation of a marriage, ensuring that both parties enter the union with a mutual understanding of their financial partnership.


I hope this article provides a clear overview of prenuptial agreements and their importance. If you’re considering a prenup, it’s advisable to consult with a legal professional to understand the specific laws and requirements in your state.

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