Sadly, recent headlines in NJ have been dominated by tragic stories of individuals being killed by someone who was stalking or harassing them. Much of the discussion around these events questions why wasn’t more done to protect the victims. I have the same questions. I am aware of the problems with the “system” as I have seen those problems surface firsthand when representing my clients. I should note that I have no involvement in any of the recent events. In this post I won’t debate or defend the “system”, and I certainly don’t intend to criticize the victims in any way whatsoever. I simply want to provide some helpful information so that individuals can best protect themselves as best possible so that future tragedies can hopefully be prevented.
No one should be subjected to harassment, stalking or other threatening behavior. When confronted with such conduct, there are certain steps that should be taken in an attempt to obtain the highest level of protection available.
First, efforts should be made to report the problematic behavior to to anyone: friends, parents, school administrators, religious leaders, and the police. But please keep in mind that simply making people aware and filing reports is not enough. Those actions will document the situation but will not initiate any protective measures.
File criminal charges. File for a Restraining Order under the NJ Prevention of Domestic Violence Act. Such filings will put the wheels in motion. These steps can be frightening and confusing. That’s why The Durst Firm is here to help. Your safety is our primary concern.
