Knowledge is power: Understanding common legal terms for NJ family law

Employment LawUseful terms for your NJ Family Law Case

 

The saying “knowledge is power” is relevant to New Jersey Family Law.  At The Durst Firm, we believe that educating our clients allows them the better engage in the proceedings, better understand what is happening with their case, and better assist us as their attorney in achieving an optimal result.

 

As attorneys, we too easily forget that we often speak in “legalese” and use terms that are not familiar to many.  To help reduce the confusion, we offer the following list of commonly used terms.

Arrears: Arrears are unpaid or overdue child support, alimony, or spousal support payments.

Application: An application is written request in which you ask the court to issue an order or to change an order that has already been issued.

Certification: A certification is a written statement made to the court when you file papers with the court, swearing that the information contained in the field papers is true.

Child Support Number (also referred to as “CS Number”): The Child Support Number is the identifying number assigned to your child, spousal, or alimony support case.

Complaint: A complaint is a formal document filed in court that starts a case. It typically included the names of the parties and the issues you are asking the court to decide.

Court Order: A court order is the written decision issued by court of law. For example, a child support order sets forth how often, how much, and what kind of support is to be paid.

Docket Number: The docket number is the identifying number assigned to every case filed in the court.

Exhibits: Exhibits are written documents you provide to the court to support what you want the court to decide.

Income Withholding/Wage Garnishment: Income Withholding/Wage Garnishment is a process where automatic deductions are made from wages or other income to pay your support obligation. Income withholding has been mandatory since the enactment of the Family Support Act of 1988.

New Jersey Child Support Guidelines: Both parents are responsible for financial and emotional support of their children. New Jersey has developed a standard method for calculating child support based on the income of both parents and other factors. The full set of NJ Child Support Guidelines is contained in Rule 5:6A of the New Jersey Court Rules.

Obligor/Payor: An obligor/payor is the person ordered by the court to pay support also known as the non-custodial parent (NCP).

Obligee/Payee: An obligee/payee is the person, agency, or institution who receives support, also known as the custodial parent (CP).

Petitioner: Petitioner is another name for the person starting the court action by filing the appropriate papers the court will consider.

Respondent: Respondent is another name for the person who is named as the other party in the court action filed by the petitioner. This person can answer the filed by petitioner by filing a cross motion or written response with the court.

Relief: To ask for relief is to ask the court to grant something such as custody, parenting time, or support.

Support Obligation: Support Obligation is the amount of support that the court orders the obligor to pay. The court order includes how much and how often support has to be paid. (i.e., per week, per month, bi-weekly, etc.).

Support Enforcement: The Probation Division is required to enforce court orders that call for the payment of child support, health care coverage, and/or spousal support/alimony. If support is not being paid timely, Probation Support Enforcement has many state and federal tools available to enforce child support orders. These can include, but are not limited to:

  • Income withholding
  • Court hearing
  • Bench warrant
  • Tax offset- federal and state
  • Judgement (liens attached to property & assets)
  • Credit bureau notification
  • Financial Institution Data Match (FIDM)- seizure of bank accounts
  • Child Support Lien Network (CSLN)- seizure of proceeds from law suits
  • Passport denial
  • License suspension
  • Lottery interception
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A time for new traditions

If you are divorced or goinf through a divorce the upcoming holidays can be an unsettling and frustrating time.  In working with families dealing with divorce for over fifteen years, I’d like to offer some observations to helpd make this time easier for you and your children.

Divorce changes everything.  And nothing.

Navigating the holidays and all of the related expectations alone for the first time can be daunting.  Most likley, even during the difficult times of the marriage, there was  a division of labor.  Now it feels like it’s all an your shoudlers.  Rather than feeling overwhelemed, seize the opportunity to do the holidays your own way.  Hold on to your favorite holiday traditions but feel free to make new ones. 

If you have children, be sure to work out your holdiay parenting time.  Work with your ex-spouse to coordinate gifts for the children.  No need to double up on anything.  Do what you can to keep the focus on the children.  Afterall, that’s where it should be.

Althogh you may be dealing with new stresses, this is nothign new.  If you think back, the holidays were always a stressful time.  Things are not worse “this year” because of the divorce.  Don’t let it be an anchor that weighs you down.  How you handle the stress and the changes will set the tone for your children and other family members.
Cut yourself some slack

There will be some tough times.  No matter how hard you try, something will fall through the cracks.  Don’t expect too much from yourself.  Don’t try to hold it all together all the time.  Set aside some time for yourself.  Lean on family or a good friend.
Use the holidays to refocus your priorities

There is still much to enjoy: children, family, friends, a snowy afternoon.  Focus your energy there.  With the holidays comes a literal turning of the calendar page.  Make the most of the new year and the opportunities that will undoubtedly present themselves.  Learn something new.  Travel.  Challenge yourself.  Taking these little steps can be rewarding a fulfilling. 

 

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I have evidence on my phone? Can I use it in court?

In today’s world, much of our communication with one another takes place in the form of emails, text messages, posts to social media sites, and voice mail messages.  Often, the contents of these electronic forms of communication are critical pieces of evidence in NJ family court proceedings, particularly domestic violence trials.

What happens at final hearing when a party seeks to introduce texts, e-mails, social media messages, or audio/visual evidence directly from his or her cell phone?  In a recent decision by Judge Jones, he offered constructive guidance on this isuses.

cell phone evidence

cell phone evidence

First, when a litigant attempts to offer into evidence images on a cell phone screen, it is difficult to preserve that evidence in the court’s file for the record.

Second, a  cell phone has a small screen. Consequently, only small portions of documents may be viewed at one time and it is difficult to view the entire exchange in its proper context. A judge trying to read lengthy information on a cell phone screen might have to continuously scroll upward or downward to see the entire conversation. It may be very difficult for a judicial fact finder to analyze and consider the totality of a document which can only be seen in tiny partial fragments at a time. Moreover, it can be equally challenging for the court to view and compare messages, emails and texts side by side when cell phone screen has no room to accommodate same. If a party is attempting to introduce a thread of ongoing text messages or emails from a lengthy electronic dialogue between the parties, the process of scrolling can be even more time-consuming and cumbersome.

Third,  it is extremely impractical for the court and both parties to all view evidence on al cell phone at the same time, as compared to viewing duplicate hard copy printouts of the same document. Without such copies available, a party’s cell phone may actually have to be passed around in triangular fashion between the plaintiff, the defendant, and the court. This process may then have to repeat itself for viewing each and every document, or different portions of the same document, constituting a procedure which is almost certain to significantly slow down the trial itself. As obstructive and unnecessarily time consuming as a repetitious, pass-around-the-phone process can be, the procedure is particularly challenging in domestic violence final hearing, where there is already a temporary restraining order (TRO) in place, and where the parties cannot physically sit or stand next to each other to jointly view the tiny cell phone screen at the same time. In fact, a sheriff’s officer might literally have to sit in the middle of the parties’ respective tables and pass the cell phone between them and the judge for viewing by each party and by the court. Additionally, if multiple individuals are handling the device, there is an increased risk of accidental destruction of evidence.

Fourth, if a party orally reads a text or email into record, and if the other party and the court have no available hard copies from which to simultaneously read and follow along, there is no guarantee that oral recitation is accurate. The process of reading messages onto the record can be  time-consuming and confusing if there are multiple lengthy texts and emails between the parties from various past relevant dates and times. There is also the reality that messages may not be in English and therefore a translator would be required to assure of accuracy.

Fifth, as regarding voice mail evidence stored on cell phones, it is often difficult to hear the exact words of an audio recording after only one review, and may require more attempts.

Sixth, if after the close of testimony, the court wishes to again review all electronic cell phone evidence as part of process of judicial deliberation before rendering a decision, the court is practically unable to do so without the benefit of hardcopy forms of such evidence.

While the above-referenced challenges may at times be significant, they can potentially be mitigated if a litigant is advised in advance that if he or she wishes to introduce cell phone evidence in the hearing, such evidence should optimally be made available in tangible oan organized, duplicate hard copy form for potential use at trial, as follows:
Cell Phone Evidence                                                       Hardcopy Form

  1. Emails and Texts                                               printed on paper
  2. Social media messages                                  printed on paper
  3. Photographs                                                      printed on paper
  4. Audio Recording                                               duplicated on C.D. or cassette
  5. Video Recording                                               duplicated on DVD
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How does divorce arbitration work?

Legal proceedings  can be intimidating. Many litigants have not been involved in the legal system before their divorce. Understanding how the process works can help allieve some of the confusion and allow you to focus on the issues rather than the process. 

As a follow up to our prior posting about ADR, we thought it would be helpful to provide some basic information as to how divorce arbitration works. 
What is arbitration?

Arbitration is a form of alternative dispute resolution method that is growing in popularity as a way to resolve divorce cases. It is private and can be more expeditious than traditional litigation. While virtually any issue can be dealt with in arbitration there are special comsiderations that must be followed if custody and parenting time will be addressed
Custody & parentingtime arbitration 

Custody and parenting time issues are perhaps the most import at issues to be addressed in a divorce. The impact can be significant for both the parents and the children.  

In the case of Fawzy v. Fawzy which was decided in 2009, the New Jersey Supreme Court providedguidance on how custody and parenting time disputes need to be handled. 
What are the Fawzy factors?

First, all of the tetimony must be recorded verbatim. This can be anexpensive requirment and can be accommodated in several ways. A transcript can be made of the proceedings for example. 

Second, there must be a record of all documents used as evidence. The more detailed this record is, the better. It would be wise to retain copies of all documents used whether they be your own or those offered by the other side. 

Third, the arbitrator must make and provide to the parties written findings of fact and conclusionsof law that support their decision. 

Provided that these conditions are met, arbitration can be a helpful resource in dealing with custody and parenting time outside of the courtroom.  

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I’m getting divorce and my spouse wants to use ADR. What is that?

There are three main methods by which a NJ case case can be resolved.  As will be discussed below, each method has its own pro’s and con’s andyou should be careful in selecting the approach that you will believe will work best for your case.  It is important to realize that these various approaches are not mutually exclusive and can be used in combination.  A skilled attorney should be competent in all available resolution techniques.  Recognizing that each divorce case is unique, not all resolution methodologies work in each situation.  If there is a Domestic Violence Restraining Order in place, your options may be limited.
Direct Negotiation

Many cases can be readily and properly resolved by direct negotiations between the parties and there attorneys.  This approach affords the litigants the greatest level of control over the proceding and the ultimate outcome.  However, it requires a high degree of cooperation between the parties.   Sadly, this dynamic is often absent in divorce proceedings.
Alternate Dispute Resolution

If and when direct negotions break down, or are not feasible, there are two primary methods of Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR).  As with direct negotions, these paths require a high level of cooperation. The two main types of ADR are mediation and arbitration.
What is mediation?

Mediation is a voluntary process.  There is the court adminstered custody and parenting time mediation and there is private mediation where the parties select a mediator who can review the facts, consider the legal arguments and help facilitate a settlement. The mediator works for both litigants and does not take sides.  Any recommendations offered by the mediator are non-binding.
What is arbitration?

Arbitration is another ADR option.  Unlike mediation, arbitration can result in a binding decision.  In arbitration, the parties are giving the arbitrator judge-like authority over their case.  Typically, the litigants and their attorneys will enter into an Arbitration Agreement that will define the issues to be addressed, the format of the proceedings.  The determinations of the arbitrator are typcially binding on the litigants.  
ADR can be a practical approach to resolving your divorce.  It can also lead to frustration, delay and additional expense.  Working with your attorney will allow you to selcet the resolution method best suited for your case.


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