Dear Hope Solo;<\/p>\n
The recent headlines surrounding the claims that you are the victim of domestic violence are troubling.\u00a0 As the facts continue to evolve I sincerely hope that this is all some tragic misunderstanding and that you are not being abused by someone you love and trusted.\u00a0Sadly, the statistics do not point to that reality.\u00a0 Love is many things, but it should never be violent or abusive.\u00a0 All too many people – still mainly women – are victimized by their spouse, partner or boyfriend.\u00a0 Physical, verbal, and emotional abuse are all damaging and can inflict long term pain on the victim. Only by taking proactive steps to end the cycle of domestic violence can the healing process truly begin.<\/p>\n
You came to our national consciousness in part to the strength and courage you displayed as a member of the national women’ soccer team.\u00a0 Just as you protected the goal, you now need to protect yourself.\u00a0 If the relationship is truly abusive, please leave it immediately.\u00a0 If you need ongoing protection seek a restraining order.\u00a0 Do not let your physical and mental strength convince you that you can handle this alone.\u00a0 You cannot.<\/p>\n
You are a role model to many people in the USA and around the world.\u00a0 Many of your fans are young girls who look up to you and want to be like Hope.\u00a0 Show them that domestic violence is never acceptable.\u00a0 Demonstrate your true strength.\u00a0 Let them see you stand up foryourself.\u00a0 By doing so you can teach all the young girls who follow you the importance of self respect.\u00a0 It is unfortunate that you need to go through this drama in public.\u00a0 But since you must, use this as a teachable moment.\u00a0 If you do, your influence will extend well beyond the soccer field.<\/p>\n
***I have no professional relationship with Hope Solo or anyone else involved in this story.\u00a0The facts of this situation continue to evolve and everyone is entitled to their day in court.***<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dear Hope Solo; The recent headlines surrounding the claims that you are the victim of domestic violence are troubling.\u00a0 As the facts continue to evolve I sincerely hope that this is all some tragic misunderstanding and that you are not … Continue reading