{"id":837,"date":"2012-08-01T21:12:00","date_gmt":"2012-08-01T21:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=837"},"modified":"2012-08-01T21:12:00","modified_gmt":"2012-08-01T21:12:00","slug":"the-alphabet-soup-of-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=837","title":{"rendered":"The Alphabet Soup of Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a lawyer I find one of my most important responsibilities involves educating clients on all phases of the divorce process.  As they saying goes, &#8220;knowledge is power&#8221; and I want my clients to be empowered during their divorce.  Part of what makes the divorce process confusing is the all to frequent use of the unique language used by lawyers and judges.  Often, this language sounds like alphabet soup.  What follows is a brief description of some commonly used acronyms.<\/p>\n<p><strong>ADR<\/strong> Alternate Dispute Resolution.  While many divorces are resolved through traditional litigation and negotiation, other cases are resolved using alternative methods such as mediation, arbitration, or collaborative divorce.<br \/>\n<strong>CIS<\/strong>  Case Information Statement: this is a multi-page financial disclosure statement that serves as one of the most important documents in your divorce case.<br \/>\n<strong>CMC<\/strong> Case Management Conference: This is a conference between the attorneys and the judge assigned to your case for the purposes of setting a schedule for discovery and other important tasks for your case such as the ESP.<br \/>\n<strong>CMO<\/strong> Case Management Order: this is the court order the results from the case management conference<br \/>\n<strong>ESP<\/strong> Early Settlement Panel: this is a very important event in your case.  You and your attorney will prepare a memorandum which outlines your settlement position.  Your spouse will do the same and you will exchange your respective memos.  You and your attorney along with your spouse and their attorney will then appear before  panel of two attorneys will review the positions and offer a non-binding settlement recommendation.<br \/>\n<strong>FJOD<\/strong> Final Judgment of Divorce: this is the court order that officially dissolves the marriage and grants you a divorce.<br \/>\n<strong>QDRO<\/strong> Qualified Domestic Relations Order: This is a court order that is needed in order to divide certain types of retirement accounts.\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you hear these or other terms that are confusing to you, it behooves you to ask questions so that you can fully understand and participate in your divorce.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a lawyer I find one of my most important responsibilities involves educating clients on all phases of the divorce process. As they saying goes, &#8220;knowledge is power&#8221; and I want my clients to be empowered during their divorce. Part &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=837\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[28],"tags":[29,32],"class_list":["post-837","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-durstfirm-news","tag-divorce","tag-durst"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6omM8-dv","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1980,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1980","url_meta":{"origin":837,"position":0},"title":"How long will it take to get divorced in NJ?","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"January 13, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"As with any difficult experience, individuals going through a divorce want the process over sooner rather than later. \u00a0While this is certainly understandable, rushing the process can have serious consequences.Working with your attorney can help make sure that not only does your divorce get done quickly as possible, it gets\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Durst on Divorce&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Durst on Divorce","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?cat=27"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":2031,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2031","url_meta":{"origin":837,"position":1},"title":"What is the Parent&#8217;s Education Program in NJ?","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"February 11, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"If you are getting divorce in NJ and have children, you be will required to attend the Parent's Education Program. \u00a0This program is administered by the court and is free for the litigants. \u00a0Attendance is required unless all issue of custody and parenting time have been resolved. \u00a0You and your\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Durst on Divorce&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Durst on Divorce","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?cat=27"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1311,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1311","url_meta":{"origin":837,"position":2},"title":"Doing what we can to make divorce easier.","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"May 21, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"At the Durst Firm understand how difficult divorce can be. There is no doubt that going through a divorce is an emotionally and financially taxing process and one you may not have wished to experience. There is nothing we, or any other attorney, can do to make a divorce easy.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Durst Firm News&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Durst Firm News","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?cat=28"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1016,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1016","url_meta":{"origin":837,"position":3},"title":"Is Court administered divorce arbitration coming to NJ?","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"February 22, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"There are several ways a NJ divorce case can get resolved.\u00a0 The parties can reach an agreement between themselves or with the assistance of their attorneys. 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