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<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\nAt The Durst Firm, we have frequently dealt with this very situation. We have been successful in developing and implementing arrangements that allow for the defendant’s ability to attend these milestone events. If you have questions or concerns about what’s allowed under the terms of your restraining order, contact us for assistance. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
If you have a restraining order entered against you, whether it be a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) or a Final Restraining Order (FRO) it goes without saying that life gets complicated. 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