{"id":2765,"date":"2022-12-19T07:28:36","date_gmt":"2022-12-19T12:28:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2765"},"modified":"2022-12-19T07:28:36","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T12:28:36","slug":"a-view-from-the-trenches-thoughts-of-the-divorce-system-after-20-years-of-working-in-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2765","title":{"rendered":"A view from the trenches: thoughts of the Divorce System after 20+ years of working in it"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Divorce is difficult. It can be a time consuming, costly, and emotionally draining process. But does that mean that the system is irretrievably broken and inherently damaging to families? Not in my opinion. However, the Amazon documentary \u201cDivorce Corp\u201d would have you believe diffidently. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Divorce is difficult. It can be a time consuming, costly, and emotionally draining process. But does that mean that the system is irretrievably broken and inherently damaging to families? Not in my opinion. 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