{"id":2479,"date":"2016-12-03T18:56:32","date_gmt":"2016-12-03T23:56:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2479"},"modified":"2016-11-30T19:13:53","modified_gmt":"2016-12-01T00:13:53","slug":"can-i-change-my-name-after-my-divorce-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2479","title":{"rendered":"Can I change my name after my divorce?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>While more and more women are opting to keep their own surname when they get married, many still choose to adopt their husband&#8217;s last name. \u00a0However, when the marriage ends, keeping his name may be an unpleasant reminder of the past. So the question becomes whether or not under New Jersey law a woman has a right to drop the last name of her former spouse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is there the right to change last names?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The answer is &#8220;Yes&#8221;. As part of the divorce one can ask to drop their married name. \u00a0This is acccomplished by drafting language into the settlement agreement that confirms this right, identified the name to be dropped and the new surname and provides the security number of the individual. \u00a0For security reasons and in compliance with the court rules, my practice is to redact all but the last four digits of the social security number. \u00a0By putting this right in the settlement agreement the client then has an enforceable court order to give to the DMV or any other agencies which may need to implement the name change. \u00a0Do not give an agency the original copy of your Final Judgment. \u00a0Copies are generally acceptable. \u00a0Keep in mind that while a wife can request to change her name \u00a0the husband cannot require her to do so.<\/p>\n<p>At the final hearing the judge will make some inquiries as to the reasons for requesting the name change. \u00a0The court must be satisifed that the reqeust is not being made to avoid criminal charges, evade creditors, or for any other fraudulent purpose.<\/p>\n<p><strong>An interesting twist<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After practicing for several years I had participated in or observed dozens of name change requests. \u00a0They tend to be non-eventful occurrences. \u00a0However, on one particular day I was seated in the back of the courtroom as the case ahead of us was wrapping up. \u00a0The name change is often the last part of the proceeding. \u00a0When the attorney started questioning her client I shifted my focus to my own case. \u00a0I was snapped out of that focus when the client asked to assume an entirely new last name. \u00a0She did not want to assume her birth name. \u00a0After a few moments of confusion the court confirmed that she could adopt any last name she wanted!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While more and more women are opting to keep their own surname when they get married, many still choose to adopt their husband&#8217;s last name. \u00a0However, when the marriage ends, keeping his name may be an unpleasant reminder of the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2479\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1959,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[28],"tags":[165,29,32,164,47,166],"class_list":["post-2479","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-durstfirm-news","tag-change","tag-divorce","tag-durst","tag-name","tag-nj","tag-settlement"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/600px-Hello_my_name_is_sticker.svg_.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6omM8-DZ","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1958,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1958","url_meta":{"origin":2479,"position":0},"title":"Can I change my last name as part of my divorce?","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"January 2, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"\u00a0 As part of a divorce, one thing women may request is permission to change their last name.\u00a0 In those cases where the\u00a0one spouse\u00a0has assumed the surname of their now ex-spouse, dropping his last name can be a cathartic move.\u00a0 This post will outline the process of seeking a name\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Durst Firm News&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Durst Firm News","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?cat=28"},"img":{"alt_text":"What's my name?","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thedurstfirm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/600px-Hello_my_name_is_sticker.svg_-300x215.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":947,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=947","url_meta":{"origin":2479,"position":1},"title":"Can I change my name after my divorce","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"November 8, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"After a divorce, many women wish to resume a former name. 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