{"id":2035,"date":"2016-02-08T10:15:00","date_gmt":"2016-02-08T15:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2035"},"modified":"2016-02-06T10:23:27","modified_gmt":"2016-02-06T15:23:27","slug":"a-glimpse-inside-the-court-room","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2035","title":{"rendered":"A glimpse inside the court room"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For me, being in a courtroom is much like being on a playing field. There is the opposition. There are rules. Hours of practice lead up to a critical moment in the game. The goal is to win.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Clients are often nervous upon entering a courtroom. This is understandable as they have a great deal at stake. I appreciate and respect the trust they place in me when the ask that I be their attorney. And truth be told, there are still times when I get nervous.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One such time is when we wait for the judge to render their decison in a domestic violence trial. Sitting their as the decison is read is gut wrenching. &nbsp;In a recent trial I allowed myself to relax a bit only after the judge started quoting portions of my closing argument in his decison! &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I get nervouse because I care about my clients. If your attorney tells you they never get nervouse, you may need to find a new attorney. One who cares.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For me, being in a courtroom is much like being on a playing field. There is the opposition. There are rules. Hours of practice lead up to a critical moment in the game. The goal is to win.&nbsp; Clients are &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2035\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[133,36,32,68],"class_list":["post-2035","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-durst-on-divorce","tag-client","tag-domestic-violence","tag-durst","tag-trial"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6omM8-wP","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2523,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=2523","url_meta":{"origin":2035,"position":0},"title":"Interfering with spouse&#8217;s employment can be domestic violence","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"January 5, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"All too frequently individuals going through a divorce make emotional and knee-jerk reactions. \u00a0Such actions can lead to a range of issues and complications in the case that would otherwise not exist. 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