{"id":1112,"date":"2013-06-23T07:49:52","date_gmt":"2013-06-23T11:49:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1112"},"modified":"2013-06-23T07:49:52","modified_gmt":"2013-06-23T11:49:52","slug":"i-cant-afford-my-child-support-payment-what-should-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1112","title":{"rendered":"I cant&#8217; afford my child support payment? What should I do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a NJ divorce, both parents have an obligation to financially support the child(ren) of the marriage.\u00a0 Child support can be calculated utilizing the NJ Child Support Guidelines or the parties can agree to deviate from the Guidelines.\u00a0 Child support is typically paid to the parent exercising primary residential custody by the other parent.\u00a0 Once\u00a0 a child support order has been entered it is critical that\u00a0the payor spouse\u00a0do everything possible to satisfy the obligation. The parent of primary residence needs the support\u00a0to help defray the expenses of the children.\u00a0 However, situatuons develop that make it difficult, if not impossible, the meet\u00a0a child support obligation whether\u00a0it be due\u00a0to illness, job loss, or other factors which impact the ability\u00a0to\u00a0pay.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself unable\u00a0to\u00a0pay your child support obligation, what should you do?\u00a0Well, you should seek relied from the Court as soon as possible.\u00a0 Meet with an experienced attorney quickly to review your case and determine if a motion to modify\/reduce child support is appropriate.\u00a0 You should not simply stop paying. You should not rely on your former spouse&#8217;s &#8220;agreement&#8221; to take less or defer receipt of your payments until a later date.\u00a0 These agreements are not necessarily binding and can lead to additional problems.\u00a0\u00a0 Failure to pay child support an lead to wage garnishment, seizure of any tax refunds you may be entitled to receive, the revocation of your drivers license (or any other state issued license), and potentially, incarceration.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>There is no doubt that the current economy has made paying child support difficult.\u00a0 If you feel you need relief, take the proper steps and do not engage in self-help.\u00a0 The attorneys of The Durst Firm have the experience to assist you in your child support matters.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a NJ divorce, both parents have an obligation to financially support the child(ren) of the marriage.\u00a0 Child support can be calculated utilizing the NJ Child Support Guidelines or the parties can agree to deviate from the Guidelines.\u00a0 Child support &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=1112\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[38,29,32],"class_list":["post-1112","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-durst-on-divorce","tag-child-support","tag-divorce","tag-durst"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6omM8-hW","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":3001,"url":"https:\/\/thedurstfirm.com\/?p=3001","url_meta":{"origin":1112,"position":0},"title":"Understanding the New Jersey Child Support Guidelines","author":"Sandy Durst","date":"April 30, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Photo by Anna Shvets on Pexels.com In New Jersey, child support is determined using the Income Shares Model, which aims to ensure that children receive the same proportion of parental income they would have if their parents lived together. 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